Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #7 Game Day(…my husband’s term)!

Golden Rule #7 - Game Day!

You have been studying the Golden Rules and it’s time for Game Day (OK…… I compromised on this term with my husband)!  Preparing yourself for motherhood is the most important thing you can do in your life. We spend time preparing for exams, events, and many other outside activities, but we give little thought to this most sacred happening.

We all know by now, that the stork doesn’t drop off a baby in a bundle to earth. The sexual act creates life. Many couples come to a point where they decide to get pregnant and suddenly,…

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #6 Find Fulfillment within Yourself!

Golden Rule #6 - Find fulfillment within yourself!

I have often heard excited new mothers stating that they felt complete after giving birth. It is wonderful to feel complete with a new baby, but really believing your words can ultimately lead you down a difficult road with your relationship with your child.  No one here on earth is here to complete you. This is your job. Wholeness comes from within.  The more you accept this as a truth, you will not be placing unrealistic expectations on your child. How many people have you witnessed that are living through their children?

What to…

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #5 Heal your Physical Body!

Golden Rule #5 - Heal your Physical Body! 

A  V.I P. is coming to your home for dinner (possibly President Obama or the Dali Lama).  What would you do? You would probably clean your house; dress in your finest clothing and prepare a glorious feast. Your upcoming pregnancy needs to be viewed with the same perspective…. an important guest is arriving soon. Your body is the temple which will be hosting this great guest. What will you do to prepare? 

What to do / action steps: 

1. Clean and detoxify your body of any bad habits such as smoking, drugs, and excessive drinking and eating.…

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #4 Reconnect with your Soul!

Golden Rule # 4 - Reconnect with your Soul! 

How often do you think about your soul or spiritual self?  We spend so much time thinking about our physical being, but sparing moments contemplating our own soul. The soul is everlasting but our bodies are mortal. Get in touch with your spirituality …whatever that means to you. 

Our spiritual nature needs to be a daily happening. The more you get in touch with your true spiritual nature, the more positive influence you’ll be for your unborn child.  Bliss and beauty are eternal principles available to all, but it comes from an “internal”…

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #3 Heal your own Birth Experience!

Golden Rule #3 - Heal your own Birth Experience……..“Ludicrous” was my reaction to a friend twenty years ago, when she shared her rebirthing healing session with me. What a bunch of new age nonsense, I arrogantly thought. I felt that people were just addicted to healing and searching for another reason to why they were so unhappy. I don’t have any birth trauma…..…boy was I wrong!

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #2 Heal the relationship with your Birth Parents!

Golden Rule #2 - Heal the relationship with your Birth parents

  Whether you’re conscious of it or not, most of us are carrying in our subconscious minds issues with our birth parents. Most of us did not live in a television sitcom as pure as “Happy Days.”  Dysfunction exists in ALL families one way or another. How we relate to others is interconnected from our conception and early childhood experiences.

 The ideal situation is to start doing some inner housecleaning before you get pregnant. The more you sweep away the hurts and resentments towards your parents, the more it will enhance the…

 Shaman Mother’s “7″ Golden Rules before you get pregnant - #1 Strengthen the relationship with your Partner!

Golden Rule #1 - Strengthen the relationship with your Partner

 This should be your main priority. Personal relationships are key to your spiritual growth.  We walk on sunshine early in our relationship and then as time marches on. the dark, shadowy clouds descend. “He doesn’t bring me flowers anymore.” “She never wants to have sex.” “He’s never home.” “All she does is nag!” “He’s a slob.” Does any of this sound familiar? BLAME, BLAME, BLAME!!! It is always someone else’s fault that you are unhappy. Here lies your first mistake.  IT IS YOUR JOB TO MAKE YOU HAPPY! This is no one…

 Preparing for the Mother-Baby Union

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 Baby Boy or Girl!

Baby boy or girl | a choice

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 Childbirth Fears

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Baby Blues | what are they

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