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Love is a many splendored thing
Valentine’s Day scents are in the air with roses, candy, cards, candles and love songs… then why in the world is Adele the British pop singer, the #1 entertainer in the world with her songs about heart break? Millions of people relate to her sad songs. Is humanity addicted to pain? As I‘m writing this blog, Rhianna’s recent hit: “I Found Love”…is playing on the radio. Is love hopeless? Real love can never be hope-less. Love is hope -ful. People you love, can leave you, stop communicating and disappear from your life but the love that you FELT will always burn brightly inside of you. No one can take love away from you. Love is YOU…..the real you!
If you’re sad that a lover left you, feel the sadness but then remind yourself about how lucky you were to experience loving another. Some relationships have a short expiration date and like a shooting star, they are brief but beautiful. Love is like a beautiful bird that should never be caged, but set free fearlessly.
Real love is a boomerang…the more you love, the more it comes back to you. So toss your boomerang now. There are many people to love in this world. Tell someone today that you love them. It can be man, woman, child, animal or thing.
“Yes, love is a many splendored thing.” 1955 American Film Classic
Happy Valentine’s Day!
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Looking for Love
We have online dating services, social media, and other ways of connecting to a potential partner, but many people still feel lost and lonely. Why does one feel so alone in the world?People come to see me with a variety of personal issues that are troubling them and one is them is the search for their “BELOVED.”Some people are divorced and others remain single, longer than they ever expected.I often joke with them that the married ones wish that they were single again. They are treading on the walk of FEAR & not the path of LOVE. The human mind is filled with concepts, beliefs, and distortions about love.
Most of us think we are capable of loving, but because of past negative experiences, this capability is not firing on all cylinders.People’s ego, pride and fear that they could be rejected, locks the door to this possibility. Love me first and then I’ll see if I’ll love you back is the voice of fear within. So how do we breakthrough this and attract genuine, healthy love?
- Never try to force yourself to love.
- Do a thorough self examination of yourself truthfully.
- Find where your vanity, ego and pride rule your relationships.
- Fall in love with yourself first and not in a narcissistic manner.
- Be willing to give love freely without any expectations.
- Connect inwardly and lovingly to the Divine and discover harmony within.
- Stop wallowing in self pity and extend yourself to love or help someone.
- Change your attitude towards your pain.
- Stop looking for love…love is found inside.
- Be willing to risk heart break!
Surrender all your false insecurities and fall truly in love. Real love isn’t selfish. Let go of the need to control and allow the natural feelings of love, kindness and generosity to generate a magical relationship.Love comes from a place deep in the heart….not your mind. Trust your heart to know love and give love. Your homework assignment is to take the take the next 10 days and work on a single item above from my recommendations for the entire day; be conscious of it throughout the day and write down your feelings in a journal. You are on your way to attracting genuine, healthy love……….it’s that simple & you deserve it.
True love always creates happiness!!!!
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Learning to Love
There are very few who truly know how to love. Most of us are operating on an ego based personality, looking towards another human being to fill the cracked holes within ourselves. Early in a relationship, our hearts and minds are filled with euphoria and happiness, like a box of chocolates. This tastes so good. We start to associate that the other person is making us feel this way. Then reality sets in like a dark cloud and the ‘blame game’ begins. You begin to say “you don’t bring me flowers anymore; you did this to me; you make me feel like a piece of crap; I would be so happy of it weren’t for you….”. Does this sound familiar? Suddenly, love turns into hate. Real love never has a polar opposite…..love is love. So what can we do when our relationships start taking nose dives?
1. Never try to change anyone else. The person you can change is YOU.
2. People treat you the way you treat yourself.
3. You have to start with love and acceptance of yourself before you can extend love to another.
4. Don’t expect any person to make you happy…..this is your job.
5. Allow the real you to be present in an intimate relationship…not a phony or masked self.
6. Realize that you are responsible for only fifty percent of the relationship.
7. Operate, not from neediness, and extend love & support to each other.
8. Give up expectations and control.
9. If there is something you dislike in another person, find that trait within yourself and transform it.
Relationships are the key to your life’s journey and spiritual growth. Learning to truly love takes time, commitment and courage…..without it, life is empty – your choice!
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Cherish or Perish ~ Balloon Boy, Jon & Kate, Michael Jackson
CHERISH…..what a lovely word. Our children need to be cherished. Society says that children are our national treasure, but our actions say otherwise. The recent balloon boy incident is clearly a demonstration of using children for the parents’ own self-interest. The poor child spoke the truth and seconds later, vomited in fear of his father’s wrath. Michael Jackson is another example of a child used for his Father’s ambitions; he craved for his childhood to be returned to him by creating his Neverland ranch. Clearly Michael never healed from being forced into the spotlight and abuse. Fame and fortune never gave him the inner peace and love he wanted so desperately. He had to numb himself daily.
Every night we are bombarded with ‘Jon and Kate’ stories both proclaiming the love and concern for their children while their actions are totally the opposite. It’s easy for all of us to sit in front of the television and judge these people and self righteously declare that we would never do that. But we all do this, one way or another.
All the great religions of the world proclaim that love is the answer, but how many of us truly know how to love? It is time to remember.
1. CHOOSE differently. Each day choose peace, harmony, truth, integrity, and love.
2. FOCUS on creating a firm foundation for yourself and family of health, prosperity, and love.
3. LEARN from the lessons of your life experiences. Stop repeating old patterns of negative behavior and blame.
4. FORGIVE and it will fortify you. Our history shows that all of us readily pick up a weapon to retaliate. Jesus said it best: “Father forgive them. They know not what they do.”
5. BREATHE in love and thoughts of love. This is your true purpose.
CHERISH yourself. CHERISH life. CHERISH your children, family, community and friends. So, I challenge you to look inward and find where you are withholding love……be the love you seek!
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